Long story short:  A stranger-friend (someone from our church who I just met) landed in my office today to talk about various church things.  On a side-note he said something that resonated with me and made me stir in my chair.
"Who is your life-coach?"  This was his question and it got me thinking.  Who is the person that sees me from the outside and loves me anyway?  Who is the person I call every week, encourages me, and also isn't afraid to challenge me or to help me think differently?  
There are a few people like that in my life and I am so grateful for them.  God has the craziest ways of reminding us what's important.  I'm going to pick up the phone.